work in progress, i have an idea!!! I want mostly silk or faux flowers because of the allergies/asthma in family and wedding party.  However the memorial floral design (a spray of flowers) surrounding a candle will be real and later placed on my grandparents graves.  I thought all i wanted was roses, but now i changed my mind and want all kinds of beautiful flowers, in shades of pinks and white.  I am also unsure if i want a cascading  or hand tied, and what the girls should have- a smaller version of mine all or just MOH and or if they should carry 3 roses.... hum, needs more thought.